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writes:Ok ok ok, Im 16 and I've never gave a handjob, nor a blowjob. I want to give my boyfriend one soooo bad. The only thing thats stopping me of course is me not knowing how. Im willing to try, im just a tad lost. If im givnig him a handjob or blowjob, will it still feel good to him if he doesnt cum? Will it feel good to him if Im just rubbing it? And should I be insaulted if he doesnt cum? Or is that a normal thing..?? I mean, yeah I've touched it, and played around with it.. But everytime I do that, I can tell he wants a handjob. But, I never do, just rub /: Then we'll just stop. Its so embarrising. Im just a disstressed teenager.. Help please! Thanksss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): To start with, i think you should understand that men, are complex and simple. Remember that.To answer whether just rubbing will feel good, just the fact that he isnt imagining your hand/mouth on him is enough stimulation on its own. No doubt that will feel good. But if he doesnt cum, don't be insulted. There may or may not be a problem. Less likely that he wont when you do it right...So what you need to do is find yourselves some place quiet and private where you dont risk being disturbed.For the handjob, a little kissing to set the mood. Then what you'll want is to get him to lie back and relax. Take his shaft in your hand from about midway to three quarters up. That should be sufficient enough to grip. Now as you stroke him be gentle. Id suggest you google how to give a handjob.As for the blowjob, you'll want him to relax as you take him in your mouth. Think of it as an advanced hand job (which it is). You are able to lick along the shaft, lightly (i cnt stress this enough) nip at the head and tease it with your tongue, all while stroking his penis.Some men enjoy having their balls paid some attention too.Hope this helps...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): It will feel good if he doesn't cum, but he'll probably need to finish or he could get blue balled. If you decide to give a handjob you'll need to ask how he likes to be touched. Ask him to put his hand over yours and guide it. It will take practice, but eventually you'll get the hang of it. It will be MUCH easier for you to make it feel good if you buy some lube to use. If you don't use some kind of lube you'll probably make him chafe, which never feels good. Also, in order to finish he needs to establish a rhythm. So if you're constantly changing speeds and pressures he probably won't finish. I highly advise reading cosmopolitan or one of those types of magazines for great tips on blowjobs and handjobs.
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