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I want to lose weight... any diet tips?

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Question - (3 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

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That's a bad way to start a question haha

my problem is, im fat. everyone tells me im normal but im almost a large and nothing in my closet fits out of all my 20 pairs of jeans only 2 pair fit and bearly! I can't buy new clothes it's out of the question. Anyways, im 5'1 and weigh 116 or 120 been awhile since i weighed myself. Either way i need ways of getting skinny. Please? Im 16 if that matters?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

thank u beingblack

and to answer ur question

my mother makes remarks about my weight all the time.

i just need to loose it.

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A male reader, Beingblack United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2009):

Beingblack agony auntMy dear, who on earth told you that you are fat?

In England, we tend to use stones and pounds as a weight measure. I used to play linebacker, so I can quickly convert your weight in my head, and 8 stones and a few pounds is not fat. Nowhere near fat.

There are many, many, many, women who would give ANYTHING to weigh 8 stone!

Being 5'1" means that you may look a little more compact than a woman who is 5'9", but that does not mean you are fat. And I absolutely guarantee that taller women weigh more than you do, otherwise they would look ridiculously thin.

I work with a beautiful TV presenter in the UK who is shorter than you, and while I will never ask her for her exact weight, I have heard her stressing about how to stay under 9 stone. On screen, people see her face and shoulders. I get to see her completely. She looks a little on the thin side! She gets a huge amount of fan mail from men, and quite a bit from women too.

Your jeans are too small because at 16, your body is becoming that of a woman, instead of a g.

I don't think you need to worry at all.

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