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writes:i have a boyfriend for 4years,it is really a roller coaster ride, because he'still inlove with his ex. though,he told me, it's over between them, i don't belive, because they still have communication. what should i do? i want to let go, but he doesn't want me to leave him.
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (2 February 2008):
 Being dumped isn't nice, but if you feel you're not getting the love you're after, just go!
Tell him you don't feel you're at the top of his list.
If he does love you, he needs to proove it and cut bridges with his ex.
How could he be with you for such a long time, if he still loves her, though???
Good luck with it all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): He sounds like a pretty confused guy.
To be honest, I don't think any guy would want a girl to let go, because it picks at their confidence, and they feel it leaves them alone. But you need to let go, if you feel you need to. Staying together won't make the relationship any better - trust me, I've experienced the same thing not so long ago. Be firm with him, make eye contact, and just express every feeling you have inside. If you've been with him for 4 years, surely you'd be able to talk by now? It's a hard decision to make, and his heart may seem to break in front of your eyes, but it's time for him to sort himself out with his ex, and for you to move on a find someone you're happier with. I think you deserve more than what your getting.
I really hope it all works out ok :] If you need cheering up, or want to talk, just message me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): He sounds like a pretty confused guy.
To be honest, I don't think any guy would want a girl to let go, because it picks at their confidence, and they feel it leaves them alone. But you need to let go, if you feel you need to. Staying together won't make the relationship any better - trust me, I've experienced the same thing not so long ago. Be firm with him, make eye contact, and just express every feeling you have inside. If you've been with him for 4 years, surely you'd be able to talk by now? It's a hard decision to make, and his heart may seem to break in front of your eyes, but it's time for him to sort himself out with his ex, and for you to move on a find someone you're happier with. I think you deserve more than what your getting.
I really hope it all works out ok :] If you need cheering up, or want to talk, just message me.
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