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writes: I'm considering going to a hypnotist. I am in a good, supportive and stable relationship tho I can't seem to let my x go. I've had trouble w. this in the past, but eventually got through. It's never been this bad. Like there is more then meets the eye here. I told my bf about it and he's routing me on. I gotta get to the bottom of what the **** is wrong with me. Has anyone ever done this? Any sucess stories or otherwise?? Its very much like that movie "Eternal Sunshine on the Spotless Mind".
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reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (11 May 2006):
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): My x-girlfriend had used a hypnotherapist a few times to get over some issues in her past. It worked very well.
Don't expect things to be like Eternal Sunshine but do expect that certain ways that you think about things are changed.
In my x-girlfriends case, she had a lot of guilt and negative thoughts relating to her past and the hypnotherapist was able to take away the guilt and allow her to look on the past from a different perspective.
Just make sure the hypnotherapist you choose to see is properly qualified and registered with a recognised body. Make sure they have plenty of experience (5 years plus) and also that they are experienced in the type of thing you are going to them with. Good luck - nice to see your boyfriend is being supportive too!
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reader, Confuddled +, writes (11 May 2006):
 If you love him still... then maybe you should try talking to him... maybe he misses you as much as you miss him... men are human too and most do have feelings... maybe he does still love you... you don't have to listen to me obviously but if you really care about him then maybe you should try to talk to him... maybe you have both matured and can make the relationship work... but rejection is always feared... be strong and abrupt about it... let him know you have been thinking about him... and if all else fails... you should really talk to some one... it's the worst feeling in the world to lose the one you love... i know...good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): i think that you are not quite ready for a relationship if you are not yet over your x. Tell your current bf that you are not ready, even tho you love him as you have mixed feelings. Getting hypnotised is not the answer as it will mnean that you have let go of your innerself. You are not over your x therefore should not be trying a new relationship while longing of your x still exist
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