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I like my mates gf, what do I do??

Q.   I like my old best mates gf, but when he first started we was good friends but he started lying to me and than we fell out but the main thing is i got really strong feelings for his girlfriend and she knows it but i dont know wot to do with my ...

A.   12 May 2006: you can't do that to him... even if he is an old friend... you have to move on... take your feelings to another girl... that is not a good thing to do... start socializing with different girls and getting to know them so that you can move on... this ... (read in full...)

I was dating this guy, we broke up, he got with his best girl-friend....now I'm scared to talk to guys!!!!

Q.   I had fancied this guy for about 2 months and finally screwed up the courage to tell him how i felt. The he asked me out. He was me first boyfriend. We weren't going out for long, but I thought we had such a great connection, we didnt have that much ...

A.   12 May 2006: you are just hurt... you will heal... you have to get the confidence to talk this guy you like or you will be dwelling on your ex for too long... its unhealthy...you need to move on and make yourself happy... just try it... you only live once... be ... (read in full...)

I kissed another man and now my bf won't talk to me! How do I get him back?

Q.   i have just come out of a 9 yr relationship,and i dont want it to be like that. my partner myself and daughter went to a friends house to stay and have a few drinks when the kids went to bed.her bf kissed me to which i responded to for a sec and ...

A.   12 May 2006: i don't think he is any good for you... he cheated on you!!! that is low beyond low!! and he is mad at you for an unwanted kiss??? who does he think he is?? your bf should love you even more for not being like him and not having sex with the guy!! ... (read in full...)

Girls opinions needed... Is this chick interested in me or just being polite?

Q.   Hi, I really just wanted some girls opinions... There is a girl who lives fairly near me who knows I like her (sent her a card ages ago), well nothing really happened as she always seemed so shy, I tried approaching her in the street but never go...

A.   12 May 2006: You should keep talking to her and try to hang out with her often... you can't really tell right now but by the sounds of it.. she has a crush on you... ask her on date or to go out and do something together... just make conversation with her...and ... (read in full...)

Third person in a relationship is causing problems... what should I do?

Q.   there is a girl at my mans work i've never met her but he gave her a ride back and forth to work for 3 or 4 months i never had a problem w/this.she didn't have a car and i loved him for being so kind.now she has a car and calls the house atleast ...

A.   11 May 2006: you should TELL him you are going to meet her... if you cannot meet her than he has something to hide... if it was me... i would make the effort to get me, my b/f and her together and go out somewhere... you have to get to know her... it will drive ... (read in full...)

Can't understand why I don't seem to have any friends!

Q.   So, here's the deal. I'm 25 years old and I have NO friends. I find it very difficult to make freinds... and all the more difficult to keep the friends I manage to make. I am very quiet most of the time. I make no effort to make small talk with ...

A.   11 May 2006: you seem like a depressing person... everything that you have just said answered your own question... you have to become a positive thinker and you could be friends with anyone that you wanted... have good self-esteem but not too much and be nice to ... (read in full...)

Can't understand why I don't seem to have any friends!

Q.   So, here's the deal. I'm 25 years old and I have NO friends. I find it very difficult to make freinds... and all the more difficult to keep the friends I manage to make. I am very quiet most of the time. I make no effort to make small talk with ...

A.   11 May 2006: you seem like a depressing person... everything that you have just said answered your own question... you have to become a positive thinker and you could be friends with anyone that you wanted... have good self-esteem but not too much and be nice to ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my boss, but we both have someone and live with them....what can I do?

Q.   I am in love with my boss, but I am engaged to someone else! My boss and I have worked very closely together for seven years. I have a deep love and admiration for him and he feels the same about me. Over the years there has been alot of flirting, ...

A.   11 May 2006: your position is very tough... if you really love your fiancee... then you and your boss should just keep a respected business level... but if you and your boss talk... and you ask him if it could lead anywhere... and your willing to give up your ... (read in full...)

I want to go to a hypnotist to let my ex go....do you think this will work!?

Q.   I'm considering going to a hypnotist. I am in a good, supportive and stable relationship tho I can't seem to let my x go. I've had trouble w. this in the past, but eventually got through. It's never been this bad. Like there is more then meets the ...

A.   11 May 2006: If you love him still... then maybe you should try talking to him... maybe he misses you as much as you miss him... men are human too and most do have feelings... maybe he does still love you... you don't have to listen to me obviously but if you ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be without him, but he's not helping me whatsoever!

Q.   my boyfriend never usually wants to go to my house... he always wants to hang at his house, and he never usually wants to go out... only sometimes... we get into really bad arguements sometimes and he justs laughs at me or we call each other names. ...

A.   8 May 2006: Thank you sooo much for all your advice... i will have a good long talk with him and if he doesn't listen or respect my needs than i will dump him... i love him soo much though its soo hard... we actually just got into a fight and he said he wanted ... (read in full...)

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