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*parkleprincess
writes:ive liked this guy for ages but didnt know if he liked me, but then the other day we hooked up - a bit more than just kissing but i stopped him before it got too far which im really proud of since i like him so much. however my last relationship was horrible and i dont want to get into something so serious again and luckily he is in the same boat so we decided not to be 'together' as such. but now we both know we like each other and theres lots of flirting now. i dont want to be with him in a serious relationship but i would like to go out with him as more than friends occasionally. how do i suggest that without making things awkward? because luckily we havent damaged our friendship with the whole hooking up thing but im worried if i suggest more after we both agreed not to be together, then that will ruin our friendship.sorry if none of that made sense but i'd appreciate any opinions! ive posted this other places but no one replied, please help me!
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reader, Libertas  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 hi...i understand you perfectly cause once i have been inthe same boat as you.Thanks to god that now i have a stabil ralation but,how we all know with different fighting,words wich hearts.i wrotte about this in my quiestion..Anyway,all what can i tell you is to be carefull about your friendship.If you realy care about him,you have to talk very seriously about thise.Its depends of you,as a personality.You have to decide which is more important to you:frienship or just couple of nights spent together.In my story i had loosed my friend,its was the same how are you know.We had a marvelouse friendship but,when we started to do more than just being friends,more than just talking you know to help each other as best friends...then everything was gone..i dont know why but..i know that i loosed a great best friend.
So...my dear everything its depends of what you want..and try to talk with him about thise..then you both will decide to be friends,more than friends..or maybe both in the same time...
Good Luck
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