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writes:My best friend (male) and I are really close but when we were in first year we fought like cat and dog. Then he asked me out and I said no but now I really like him and have already asked him out and he said no. He is also sending mixed messages so what can I do?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 Yeah, we've all had that cyclical friend. I don't really know what to tell you other than to keep at it and hope that eventually you both like each other at the same time! I'll bet you that next time he asks you out, you're not quite interested and you'll turn him down... and the cycle will continue! Best of luck, just keep flirting and keep the interest. Maybe he's scared that when he says yes, you won't dig him anymore.
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reader, Ambiieex +, writes (27 February 2011):
 Hii...so he asked u out u sed no? And u asked him out he said no ?...not beingg Funny but u where to Youngee to go out with him obv You'd say no...but anyway personally I wouldn't go out with him it will totally mess up the friendship I knoe for a fact trush me and it sounds to me he's playing hard to get
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reader, live2loveandlearn +, writes (27 February 2011):
I remember this! I had a guy I thought I loved one year and the next I didn't want anything to do with him. It is a confusing time indeed!
So he used to like you and you didn't. Now you like him and he "doesn't" but acts like he may. Give it some time to play out. Keep being your sweet and nice self - your true self - when you are around him. Be flirty if you want, but don't be pushy - give him his space too. If he sees that you are really interested, he'll take notice.
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