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*nxious heart
writes:I've fallen in love with this wonderful girl and have let her know how i feel, and have asked her out, she said she needed time to think about things, obviously i argeed but that was a month ago and im starting to wonder what i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anxious heart +, writes (29 January 2007):
anxious heart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNikita that was great advice, so next time im with her shall i just ask her for a straight answer, this may seem like a cowards way out but would it be easie over email or MSN then in person? and wot if see says she just needs more time to think? thanks hun x.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (29 January 2007):
 If its been a month then it seems to me that she's already made her decision but just hasnt told you! Maybe she's nervous and unsure of what she wants but if you want a definite answer then ask her again. Just say, have you made you mind up yet?. If she says she's not sure then just move on okay. Its not fair to keep you hanging on. I really hope you get the answer you want but if not, dont worry. Im sure there's another girl out there somewhere who will say yes! Good luck okayX
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reader, anxious heart +, writes (29 January 2007):
anxious heart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you suorpio for the advice, i thought that the answer would be a no but she says she genuinly hasnt come to a decision yet she says she doesnt wanna hurt me but i said i would rather give it go and get hurt then forget it and regret it later, she has always been indecisive so i dont know if she doesnt want to hurt me or if she hasnt thought of an answer yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): Ask her again and insist on a yes or no answer. At this stage, it will probably be a no. If she won't come out and choose, you should assume she doesn't have her act together and is just too frightened to do the honourable thing and let you down. Some people genuinely hope - PRAY! - that by ignoring their problems they'll go away and they won't need to actually confront anyone or hurt their feelings. She sounds like the type. In which case, would you really want to date her anyway?
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