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writes: Ok, so I have a huge problem. I'm deeply in love with this girl who happens to be my ex from about two years ago. She's dated several different guys since our break up, and all of those relationships failed horribly due to them treating her badly. I have also been in several relationships, all failing for the same reason. I still loved this girl and never stopped to this day. She has told me on several occasions that she never should have left me and that I was the only really good guy. She likes me back and is ready to give it another shot. Problem is, apparently the reason for the first break up was due to me being "clingy". I believe I still am, but I really want to convince her that I've changed for the better. Some advice please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Its no use living a lie mate. If youre still clingy try to change by keeping your distance. It will take a lot of will power but you need to stick with it. Tell her your working on your problem, and do as you say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): You still are clingy, but you want to convince her you're not? That doesn't sound too good.
The only way your gonna convince her is by your actions. You have to give her some space. Let her have her own time. Don't make your entire life about whatever she's doing.
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (1 May 2008):
 clingy can be a good or a bad thing you are showing her attention but she's the type that doesn't want attention that much you don't need to show her you change for her to truly love you just say okay let's give it another shot but here's my tip don't show her you care too much just show her you care but not too much. Be tough about it and she will love it good luck.
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