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*uchtoask
writes:i have a (chat)friend, she is 20, she had lost(passes away) his best friend 4 yr ago,although she is OK in normal times, but she feel lonely whenever anything wrong happen with her,she feel depressed and says no-one likes and try to understand her, with this negativity she had also ruined her relationships with her college friends.. how can i help her... i have tried everything to console her and support her but nothing is working,
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reader, muchtoask +, writes (5 December 2010):
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I promise, i will be with her always and will never give up..
Im happy, when she is happy ....
Thanks again dear ...!!
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reader, advisorX  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 well, maybe 4 years is still fresh for her so she still needs even longer time to fully recover from such tragic experience. She will get over it, just dont get tired of being there for her. She may not be so strong as you are, thats why she really needs a person like you. Promise me never to give her up. Stay happy..
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reader, muchtoask +, writes (4 December 2010):
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I will always listen her...
but still the concern is that she is loosing her college friends, by this negativity, I mean how to change her negative mindset..
thanks again
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reader, advisorX +, writes (3 December 2010):
Well, the best thing to do is to listen to her everytime she's in this mood. Simply by listening to her you are already consoling her. avoid to interrupt her while she's talking. when she's finished that's the time for you to talk. Tell her that you understand her situation. If she's keep on bringing back about her friend, tell her that her friend wouldnt like her to get sad because she will also get lonely in the other side. Acceptance is the best for her to do so that her friend will have peace.
It will also help her if she will open herself for new friends.
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