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writes:I am 18 and my really good friend is 14, I have never had a relationship, and i think i like her. What should I do? I want to be with her?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): My sister was 14 and going out with an 18 year old.
But she always had a decent taste in men at that age and like my younger sister she only ever seemed to go for guys older than her.
He was good bloke, a good friend.
But they broke up eventually as they just grew away from each other.
So you can go otu with her, but just don't have sex or anything until she is at least 16. And that includes blowjobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): You know it's not a good idea - stay well away. The labels you'll get from people will be vile. Her parents will string you up. And if you have sex with her you're very likely to go to prison.
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reader, lilmisse2424  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 I would be very very careful. You are an adult here because of your age, and she is a minor. If you do get into a relationship and have sex, you would definitely be consider a sexual offender and you'll very likely end up in jail. She may not be able to go out with you so late. So if I were you, take the relationship as friends first. Hang out with her and her family. If you still have feelings for her, have her wait until she is 18 to have a relationship with her.
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reader, rproctor +, writes (28 April 2008):
Yea, I definitely would not go there...
Did you know that if you get in trouble with her you are a registered sex offender... For life! That means everytime you move you have to tell everyone on your street that you had sexual relations with a child. That means people from all over the world will be able to find you and find out you had sexual relations with a child. It also means that you will always have to conform to the governments requirements about checkups, making sure they know where you are, making sure you do not live within x miles of a school, library, etc.
If anyone wants to know how I know this, its because I work for a company that tracks and maintains sex offenders for the nation... Im not a perv!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Hiya!
if you like her than thats ok but you have to think of
the bigger picture, she's not even 16 yet which means you
cant have sex with her. she can't got out in the evenings
with you to the pub or anything! i know you may like her
but is this going to be any good for you or her??!!
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