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I want to be with her but don't know how to go about it

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Question - (24 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, *!Sophie!! writes:

Hi, I'm 21 and my best friend is 35 she has a 4 Yr old boy, we've been friends for years and help each other out all the time, last Saturday night I was a mess really upset, so we decides to drink etc and jus relax. We got into bed and and started spooning which then led to us ya know so anyway now I can't stop thinking about it or her I want to carry on but I don't know how to ask or approach her about it :( any advice would help so much I want to be with her but don't know how to go about it. Thanks guys

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011):

To be honest the age gap is too big and she has a child. Sounds like you both felt lonely that is not a good start for a relationship. Good luck :)

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A female reader, !!Sophie!! Australia +, writes (25 May 2011):

!!Sophie!! is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yeah I just don't want her to look at me different n say no lol scared

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011):

well, just go for it...tell her that you liked it and that you want to take her out...even if she said you should keep your friendship and so onnnn then I'm sure you will better just by letting it go ....:D best of luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011):

to be honest i had the same thing, and i found just telling her actually helped, as she thinked good of me

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