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writes:I want to be pregnant. Im 19 i had an abortion last year and had the depo provera straight after which lasts for 3 months. I feel i made the choice for all the wrong reasons and now really want a baby with my fiance. Problem is he doesn't know! i know he'll be supportive if it happens but he wont go out of his way to make this happen. I have been trying for a year now and no luck. If i go for fertility treatment they will want to test him too. What do i do?
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reader, Kimaxsi  +, writes (9 May 2008):
Depo Provera
"A "normal" side effect is the delayed return of fertility after going off the drug. It takes a median time of 10 months following the last injection to achieve pregnancy, with a "normal" range of 4 to 31 months (some users report indefinite infertility). This is unrelated to the duration of use; it doesn't matter how many injections were received."
If you wish to have a baby you need to tell your boyfriend, its irresponsible not too, even though your boyfriend may humor you, its important that both partners are ready and fully committed to having a baby. Its also incredibly disrespectful and manipulative to trick your man into getting you pregnant. If you know he's supportive just tell him.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (9 May 2008):
You must let him know that you are ready for a baby. If you suddenly got pregnant without his knowledge then he could grow to resent you for this and you could be left alone.
85% of couples get pregnant within a year, so the chances are you are in the unlucky 15% who have to wait a little longer.If nothing happens soon then you should see a doctor and can be referred for tests, both of you together.
Good luck
xxx
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