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*izz.butterflies
writes:Almost 2 years ago,I got involved with a man who was in Europe for business. He would stay for 6-7 months so I didnt consider our relationship serious. He would tell me he likes me a lot,we used to spend time together but didnt have sex....he would complain about how I don't let him in my life and he was right. He was kinda famous so I felt a lot of pressure,in terms of i had to prove myself to him and that often resulted in me being harsh on him...Sometimes we used to talk online also,and i have the conversations,i read them now and wanna slap myself...I acted so immature,when I realized I was in love with him he already seemed turned off and i even went to his place unnanounced in the middle of the night (something i would never do,and i am not clingy or jealous at all....) it had a lot to do with me being a virgin,and i was afraid that letting myself be free around him would end up in me falling hard for him and not being able to control myself.Well that happened anyway. He left the country and we finished on bad terms,I actually appeared Crazy and immature,when everyone i know compliments me on my maturity and how i dont act like a 20 y.o. THe point is ...I am thinking of e-mailing him and apologize to him about certain things. The thing is he wasnt completely honest either (he was 33 and told me he was 29) I dont have feelings for him now,I wanna do this for me. on the other hand,i wanna make sure he doesnt think i still have feelings for him or something. have any of you done somethin like that? any ideas on what could i say?thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): yes u should do that just to relieve ur mind.
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