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writes:hello everyonetoday i am asking for your helpwell i am my maths teacher but i love him as a dadi want him to be my dadi just dont know what to dowell my dad left when i was only 5and for some unknown reasoni love my maths teacher like i would love my dadmy maths teacher last yr thoughti had a crush on him he doesnt know that i wish he was my dad he is so loving caringkind he makes me laughi just dont know what to do about thisplease any advice Pinklove X
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reader, Musiccompletes +, writes (26 May 2011):
Coincidence. I had a real strong dose of this feeling today towards my maths teacher, he's 30 too and I completely admire and respect him beyond what I've ever felt for my father with whom I have nothing in common with. I am also 16. At first I thought I was attracted to him but I know I've mistaked that for a fatherly love. We finished compulsory education today (yr 11) and I hugged him, it felt right and he supports me like no one else. He even said today that if his children grow up to be like me, he'd be so proud. I was taken aback completely, wishing I could tell him how I feel, obviously I know he isn't going to leave his family for me, that's ridiculous. But I feel like he's made a part of me that's going to drift as I'm not taking maths for a level. I will tell him one day, I vow to, perhaps you should to define any awkwardness and tell him how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionparents evening tonight ihope he likes my mum
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letyou know what happens
hoping for the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): The same thing happend to me. I wanted me math teacher to be my dad i talked to him every day like a dad. But he took it the wrong way and the whole school thought I liked him but I did'nt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): fine-if no one else will say it:
this is really really really beyond creepy. you need to just see him as a teacher, and maybe a father FIGURE but as an actual FATHER, that's just...well-it's a fantasy and should stay that way. he would probably be really freaked out by this, my advice is to let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis class has seen both sides of him he is not that bad
he told me that he is 30 same age as my real dad
and he doesnt have a girlfriend he has ssen my mum and he likes her
i think they would be perfect together
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): Well babe there's not a lot you can do. You cannot make him your dad just because he seems like a nice guy. Truth is you really don't know him.
I'm a teacher and have a lovely time at work with my class. I love being in work and couldn't wish for a better job. I have children coming up and hugging me all the time. No doubt loads of them think i'm fun and cool and a happy teacher. But.... and here's the thing i'm also a mum of 3. I come home from work to a messy kitchen. I moan and slam around complaining about the mess. I make them go to bed on time, do homework, come in before its dark. No doubt sometimes my children wish their teacher was their mum because she's fun and nice and never moany. Do you get what i'm saying? You don't really know this teacher. You only get to see the nicer side of him. The boring, moany, tired one goes home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): .... Do maths. thats all you can do.
Star.x.
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 March 2009):
its normal, everyone needs that figure in their life, a father figure a friend whatever it be we all need guidance. im sure he is more than happy to be there for you and if you need him im sure hed be willing to help out but to a limit. For now its harmless, if he knew the situation im sure hed be understanding and supportive but how you are with him could be seen more than it is and this could lead to difficulties. why not talk to him? or somebody close to you, your mum perhaps? its better to talk things through before you rush straight in. youve done nothing wrong so dont worry, if he knew i bet hed be happy to have held such an influence in your life! talk to someone, best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry era i am my maths teacher wrong
its i love my maths teacher
but i love him as a dad
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