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writes:i am egaged to my son father he is 26 and i am to . we broke up he had nother child with some one else . he always goes out after work with his friend that is 21 and never come straight home. im not sayin he cant hang out with his male friends but i want him to come home after work . it always turns into a problem when i adress him on it what shld i do
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (31 January 2009):
 You both need to discuss this arrangement as it is not right he should do this once in a while it is fine to go with a mate for a drink but to be doing it as often as he is i feel you need to talk to him.
Do you know where they go? if so why not surprise him one time and be there and see what he does a part of me feels you are a little suspect of what he really is doing is the mate an excuse do you really think he is seeing the ex again and is using the going for a drink with the mate as an excuse? maybe i am wrong if so i apologise but you mention the fact he has a child to this ex and i wonder if your feeling something untoward is going on do you think there is? Because i dont see why he is getting so worked up about when you ask him to stop because he must see this is wrong!
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Maybe instead of addressing it directly u could do the same to him. You should just hang out with ur friends one night and 'by accident' tell him where u are. Let him see the worrying u go through. If you have to repeat ur tactics when it comes to confrontation u are chosing the wrong one to begin with. Always take a different route. He can't block u out forever. This is the sort of thing that doesnt seem all that huge now but will severely impare your relationship later on. Make this clear to him how much it matters and hopefully he will get the picture. If he doesn't care he isn't worth ur time.
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