A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I am torn in my relationship with three men. I have my ex of seven years who I have a beautiful daughter with. A relationship with a much younger man who I have been seeing after i broke up with my ex a year ago. A relationship that has begun to sour because he seems to have lost interest in me. Another man who has entered my life recently and it seems glorious but unsure because I don't know him too well. I left my ex because we were constantly arguing all the time. He had suffered a spinal injury and felt insecure and under heavy pain medication. During the course of a year during my relationship with the younger man, my ex has stopped medication, made wonderful changes, got along better with me and now I want him back and i want to send everyone else away...but Im unsure..what if I get disappointed again...I don't know what to do...
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 the way i see it is you've had your time with your ex and it didn't work out ok he's changed but you know that the reason you guys split will always be there to haunt your relationship and each time you argue or something happens that you disagree on it'll come back up and you'll realise why it was you guys split and things will fizzle out again due to the reality of the relationship.
now the younger guy you've not said much about him and neither this other guy you don't tell much about them because you're more devoted to wanting your ex back i think the main reason is because you've got a daughter and would probably love to give her a whole family and grow up with her family and that's beautiful but things don't always work out like that.
what you may need to do is have some time to yourself and with your daughter before getting into anything drastic chill out for a while enjoy the time with your daughter and get your head straight before making a rapid decision.
best time to think is alone :)
hope this helps hun x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): BabyDuck has posted the perfect answer to
your question....
I just want you to know....I understand! I
know how it fees to be torn between two (three)
loves!
It is torture to have to decide what is best
for you!
My Heart goes out to you and I wish you the
best. I am not in a position to give you advice
because I am feeling the same agony.
I just want you to know I am here. feel free to
contact me privately if you would like to talk!
Good Luck
Britt
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male
reader, jayster111 +, writes (2 July 2009):
Hunny you cant have a true relationship unless you devote your self to one man not three, period.
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