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writes:hey everyone,ive been dating this girl for 6 months now and im having mixed feelings. she is a good girl and she really cares for me. i care for her but something is troubling me. she is way into her music which is fine but she freaks out when something comes on she doesnt like. she is almostalways unhappy because of the way her parents treat her(which they treat her horibly). she doesnt like doing the same things i do like fishing and cars and swimming and things like that. i care for her and dont want to make her sad. we broke up once and were back together that same day and i felt like the luckiest guy in the world but now the same feelings have come back. im not sure if i like the relationship feeling.the feeling of being tied down. i like having a girlfriend but ive always pictured mself with a girl who shares my interests. im so confused and i dont know what to do.s he doesnt like living in the country either. she wants to move to a city. i love the country way too much to ever move. im so lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Hi Hunny
we can share each others interests to a point, But we have to have our own as well. Its great you have your own interests but you cant expect you g/f to like everything you like just as you wont care much for everthing she likes its our differences that makes us special. Maybe you are just with the wrong person for you hunny, But I doubt you will ever get a partner that shares all your interests unless it another fella hunny...relationships are accepting another the way they are its mostly the way a person first comes over that attracts you, If you want to change someone into something else they wont be happy hunny...TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Well, it sounds like you don't really have much in common, but an attraction, bamfan. If you are looking for a long-term relationship, you need to find someone who shares your idea of kind of life you want. Otherwise you will just wind up miserable and blaming the other for it.
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