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writes:i like a boy in high school, and i know he is AT LEAST bisexual. he didn't tell me, i just know from the way he talks and acts around me. im not out or plan to be out about my sexuality, and neither is he, but i told him i like him over messaging and he didn't reply. but i can tell he is interested because he still is very affectionate and talks to me alot. i never told him in person, im too nervous! my plan is to have a relationship with him but not open about it at school at least. how should i talk to him in person! i don't have a clue what to do. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (5 June 2010):
His lack of reply means he was probably thrown off a little. You also need to let him know that you didn't mean to make him feel uncomfortable when you expressed your feelings for him. You can tell him that you'd LIKE to get closer and that you'd like to keep it discreet too.
The best way to go about getting to know him better/more is to hang out with him. Before, during and after school. I'm not saying ALL three all the time. What I'm saying... is in order to have a relationship with him... you have to be around/spend time with him. Ask him if he wants to study or do a project/paper together. That'll get you some 1:1 face time with him for sure.
Once you start hanging out together more in public (school)... in a 'platonic' manner. People won't think anything if they see you out together elsewhere.
During the weekends you can get together, play video games, see movies, play games (basketball, baseball, etc), ride bikes - whatever. Maybe stay over night at each others houses (if possible).
Basically the more you are with/around a person... the more your relationship with them will develop whether it turns out to be just platonic or something more.
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reader, Saranghaexxbby +, writes (4 June 2010):
 I feel that you should only get in the relationship if youre willing to let everyoone know. and if hes bisexual u need to make sure u can deal with his sexual acts.
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