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writes: Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, we were together for about a year. i treated her like a queen, paid for everything took her everywhere including a holiday. She told me she loved me. I had never felt this way about anyone before so i replied i love you too. We had plans to move in together but one nite we had a bit of a tiff and that was that. Previous to this i'd always asked her if she was alright, and if we were alright because of my insecurities, but apparently i was always quizzing her up. i thought i would be really cut up about the hole thing but it hasn't been to hard. I have since met another girl who is up for a laugh and rite now so am i!!! Therefore my question is why cant i keep a woman, and why do they always get bored, when i treat them like royalty (P.S i am being myself).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): For both people (question asker and below answer) this comes down to age, maturity and experience. Also, the girls you are dating are likely lacking in these same areas so they don't really know what they want, nor can they judge what makes a good boyfriend.
It's all part of growing up guys, give it more of the above three things and you'll be absoluetely fine, I'm sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): i am 15 and i have the same problem i can not seem to keep any girls they always treat me like am no nothing but i treat them like they were the queen i spent £500 on her for a neckless and she through it bak in my face i can not do nothing right for any1 i really felt like killing my sle fbut i think i am over her now n i am having a laught bout it with my m8s i really did love her but she did not seem to love me bak every time i said love you she said ye ok me too how ome i can not hold a woman for a long time?
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reader, hemé'oono +, writes (27 December 2006):
 Ok, here's a secret. Girls like boys to not be wimps. Don't ask me every second of every day if I'm ok. If I'm not ok, I will tell you. Treat me like a queen but don't kiss my arse. If I'm being a Queen, then tel me I deserve the moon...If I'm being a Queen Beeyatch then tell me I need to pull my head out of my arse. Put me on a pedastal but climb up there to occasionally tell me off. A guy who is too easy to get along with or too mushy or too overy ANYTHING is not any womans idea of fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): What does it mean, you treat them like royalty? Are they royalty? I'm guessing not. Going to great lengths can actually be a bit off-putting. Girls want you to be yourself - everyone enjoys a bit of extra pampering at times but if you're continually washing their feet, as it were, it could be a bit creepy. They could get bored if you just feed back to them what you think they want to hear - they'll know you are just saying it. And to be honest I don't think one person in a partnership always paying for everything is a good idea - both sides should contribute.
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