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I told him I would stop lying! How do I make him believe me?

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Question - (13 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *arlieLuvsRob writes:

How do I get him back?

Me and my ex boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years, and when we would break up i would tell him i would change and quit lying, but now im seriously ready to change for him, how can i make that clear to him, where he would believe me.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (14 April 2007):

penta agony auntHe won't believe you for a while. You're the girl who cried wolf. But since he's still with you, you have a chance. You'll just have to never lie again, and eventually the trust will return. In this case, actions will speak louder than your (possibly lying) words. Hang in there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007):

hi,there is no quick fix answers to this one,its about trust and that takes a lot of hard work from you both,it aint going to be easy for your b/f to trust you to stop lying,seems you have told quite a few or is it more exaggerating to impress?which ever it is once you start to distrust your partner,its one of the most difficult parts to fix as there is always a little doubt in your mind,so start as you mean to go on and show him that you can do it good luck.

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