New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084356 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I told him I was having a bad day and he didn't seem to care.

Tagged as: Friends<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (1 April 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone.

I have liked this guy for awhile now. I thought he liked me. He texted me out of the blue last night and said something lame to me. So I thought maybe it was his way of trying to start a conversation and contact me. Good signs or so I thought. So I texted back and told him I was having a bad day and sorry to bother him about it. He replied don't be sorry and see you tomorrow. He did not bother asking me why I had a bad day or if there was anything he could do to help. He just ended the conversation like that.

I just need everybody to tell me it is obvious that he has no feelings for me at all and that I need to move on. Honestly that reaction really hurt me deeply. It told me he didn't even care enough about me or our supposed friendship to ask me what was wrong. Am I right to be this upset?

Thank you!

View related questions: move on, text

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012):

I do not think it is immature to try and spare yourself the pain of getting your heart broken. I also do not think it is immature to want to know where you stand.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012):

What this tells me is that you are too immature to have a relationship with this man. Suggestion is that you grow up a little and then try again.

Men hate the way some women over analyse everything in the world!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012):

I'm the OP.

I did not see him today because I cancelled out.

Yet he has not once contacted me - and he has every way of contacting me - to ask me if I am maybe upset with him, or if I am okay or why I had a bad day yesterday.

Now this is telling me something, right?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012):

wow ... this is a problem? you are just over reacting to nothing at all.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I told him I was having a bad day and he didn't seem to care."

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0625034000040614!