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*onely_rabbit
writes:Dear Cupid , I have a doubt about a love that I have . There is a guy that i have been loving him for many years who doesn't know that i love him . We used to be a classmate . Then after year passing by , we separated our class . And we didn't talk to each other much . But once i saw him we always make an eyes contact . He always stares at me . I don't know is this the love or not ? Now i'm oversea , I really miss him so much and then I confessed love to him . Once i confess , he didn't reply me any sms .And When i saw him online and try to talk to him he just sign off ? I don't really get what is he thinking . Or he hates me and just run away like this ? What should i do know ? Pls, help me ? Reply to this Question
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reader, ching  +, writes (7 February 2010):
ahm...what if i said to him i love him and he starts to avoid me and then my friends said to me that i should move on, but 2 days after the confession, my friend said to me that, there is something between us, like they was chatting in the FB , he was saying that," i am still hurt even though im trying to avoid him", i dunno whats in him,i cant understand him :(,and one thing..after the confessionn, my friends told me that, he is hurting when i shotout in fb , it was happen before the confession,"why cant it be, i want to see him" but i just i recently knew.. what do u think/. ?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (7 January 2009):
 TElling a man that you love him first can make him run like the wind. It tends to scare them off because they either aren't ready to hear that or they feel it's too soon in a relationship. Perhaps even that you couldn't or don't really love them. Men really do shy away from that 4-letter word. It's sort of like a KISS OF DEATH!
I don't think you need to worry yourself over this hon. Allow your pms to stay open to him and give him time to think things over. If he watched you and starred, making eye contact he quite possibly likes you. Since it kinda *freaked him out that you confessed you loved him, you are going to have to give him time to really get his mind and heart together on this. Chances are that in time he will approach you thru your SMS and you will have to play it by ear at that point.
Just be prepared that in case he can't give you the answer you want. Keep having fun with your chats with other friends and stay busy. Don't obsess over this one guy. Don't
send him any messages or emails and such. Make him wonder what happened to you. Sometimes this will bring a person to try and reconnect, especially if they like you and miss you.Rest assured that many a man has run and hide from the w3 little words that have such a big punch...I LOVE YOU!
PRAY FOR THE FRIENDSHIP THAT YOU HAD WITH HIM AND LET GOD WORK ON HIS HEART....IF IT'S MEANT TO BE, TRUST ME IT WILL HAPPEN!
Enjoy your stay overseas and perhaps the one who will love you most could be somewhere close by. After all ELVIS PRESLEY MET AND MARRIED A GIRL HE MET WHILE HE WAS IN GERMANY, SHE WAS ACTUALLY THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE. It's sad how that story ended but the point is you never know who you may find even when you aren't really looking.
KEEP YOUR HEART AND EYES OPEN....AND YOUR SMS ONLINE! 8-)
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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