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writes: Recently I have been having strong feelings towards a girl I have been good friends with for about a year. We're pretty close and we have a good laugh together plus I feel I can really talk to her about anything. So when she said her and her boyfriend had split up I thought I could ask her pretty soon because she wasn't upset. But now her boyfriend keeps going on and off whether he wants her or not and she appears to be pretty confused whether she wants him or not because she told me she never saw a future, yet she also said she likes him. Do I ask now or try and wait until I know what's going on?
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 January 2006):
 Dearie, my own advise is that you should allow her to sort her feelings out first. You could be her friend and show your support.
If u really like her then u will have to give her time to sort things through.i'm sure it wont take long u will soon know whether to go ahead and ask her or not. The whole relationship will soon sort itself out and i'm sure u will get to know what to do soon.
During breaks up sometimes this stuff happens. some couples keep breaking up and getting back together until they decide they cant cope and everything falls out completely. Other do come back together, so it isnt advisable to go out with someone still hung up on her ex.
Meanwhile, go out and enjoy yourself to take your mind off things.
All the best.
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