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writes:Probably no point in saying this really but i am going to put in out there. A couple of weeks ago i was told by a girl that i like that she likes me. i told her the same. she said she liked me but didnt want to rush it. after 2 weeks of getting on quite well she has said she does not like me in that way anymore. she said she had told me too soon and that she was not really sure at the time. she has said sorry but now i dont no what to do. i guess i should just forget her and move on because she obviously does not feel the same as she did in the first place. everything seemed fine though until she has just come out with it she said she is not going to feel bad because she cannot change her feelings which i have to deal with. i have waited ages to find the 1 and i thought it was her. how can i get over it and would it ever work being friends with her.
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reader, without_reason +, writes (2 November 2007):
 It was probably lust and now it's over, she doesn't seem to be interested.. There's no point worrying about it :]
It's nothing about you, or your personality, these things just happen.
As for finding the one, enjoy your life, your one will come :]
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (2 November 2007):
 You're pretty young to have waited ages to find the 1. In my much longer life I can not dismiss what you are feeling right now. But I can tell you that it will get better. I can also tell you that there isn't just 1 person out there for you. There are several who would love to be with a caring, sensitive man such as yourself. You should feel proud that you put yourself out there and gave love a spin. Your chances of finding love again and soon with someone who will love you back are better when you put yourself out there. Don't feel too bad that this girl changed her mind. Sometimes we are not good judges of our feelings and sometimes our feelings change. Good luck and feel better soon.
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reader, beauty981946 +, writes (2 November 2007):
this is what i think you should do.
get over her.and the best way to do that is to find someone else.i would also tell this girl that she hurt your feelings but the ask her if you could be friends.if she says yes then just accept bieng friends only and if she says no dont act bothered because girls hate that.if u still fancy her-dont tell her that untill you are SURE that she fancies you back as it could cause problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): a couple of weeks isnt a very long time. love comes when it comes and doesnt when it doesnt. im sure you will find someone, good luck!
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