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writes:Me and my boyfriends sex life have been a bit awkward lately, for diffrent reasons which i think can be over come. But when he was dropping me home on sunday, after a sex session gone wrong, he got a call from a work mate and he pulled in to phone him back even though the call had finished. We only 2 minutes away from my house and i was late home and (aditted got annoyed and shouted) told him to take me home first. Because it was the sensible thing to do. He got really mad, took me home and didnt want a hug or kiss from me as i left. He Has not contacted me since...and its wednesday. I phoned him the other night but my phone cut off, and he didnt even bother to phone back. Also, he doesnt like me playing with his phone anymore and he never used to care. But i cant accuse him of cheated because its all i have ever done is accuse him of things and if i do he will get mad. We had spend all weekend together, does he want some space...or is he wanting to end it. He didnt sound happy that i had phoned him and if anything didnt seem like he wanted to talk to me. If he doesnt contact me soon i am going to end it, is that why he is trying to do ? End it ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think things are ok, i think he was just still annoyed about an arguement we had. Thanks for the advice x
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reader, Banoffee +, writes (14 June 2007):
 It doesn't sound like you're having your needs met.
What he might or might not be thinking is neither here nor there. Why do women have this tendency to try and guess what men are thinking? It's completely unnecessary!
Ask yourself how you feel about the situation as it stands, what your options are and which one(s) you prefer. It would seem you've made your thoughts and feelings clear and have been patient and it sounds like you've had a less than satisfactory response. Personally speaking, I'd rather be on my own than with someone that was making me miserable! It's just a simple but painful matter of doing it.
Decide what you want to do, take a deep breath and then do it.
Peace.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (14 June 2007):
 He doesn't like you playing with his phone anymore, and will get mad if you accuse him of something going on?!
I think you need to ask this guy if there is someone else and if goes bellistic and strays away from the question I think you have your answer.
Maybe he is trying to end it by backing away from you, but you need to ask him this.
Good luck
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