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writes:I have a new bf and everything is going really well! but i feel like i spend too much time with him. im not one of those girls who has a bf and that's her only priority i need my friends. But i feel like they are all together without me and that im just there and the only person who wants to hang out with me is my bf.help! Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Do your friends have boyfriends? Maybe they are worried that you've fotgotten about them now that you have a boyfriend. Prove you haven't forgotten by arranging to meet up.If some of your friends are guys, then maybe your boyfriend can tag along? I'm sure your boyfriend will be fine with you arranging to see your friends without him. Encourage him to do the same with his friends =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): I had this problem a couple of years ago where i seemed to always be with my boyfriend and didnt seem to have a 'life'. My advice would be, if your boyfriend is pressuring you to spend more time with him and not your friends he may be insucure and think you are likely to go off with someone, if this is the case i would advise you to talk to him about it. If this is not the case and you feel left out with your friends then why dont you ring them up or send them an e-mail arranging to go out to the pictures or have a girly sleepover 'strictly no boys' this may do wonders and let them know you want to still have friends.
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