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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, well basically I think I may be falling for my boss. He is married although I think he married the wrong women without knowing her well enough, (and because of religion) although I think he does love her, he has made comments which make me think he is unhappy and I heard him say to a friend the other day that he shouldn't of got married.I have no intention of going for him or having a relationship at work, and I'm hoping my feelings will pass. I guess I just want some advice on if he does like me or not, and I'm very aware that I like him and I don't want him to notice! Well he always notices if I wear something new and will say I look nice and stuff. The other day he asked me about famous men and which ones I liked I couldn't really think and then he joked he would be the next brad pitt. I've seen him looking at my body, he stands very close in my personal space, leans over me, touches my arms (although I think he is quite touchy feely anyway)Help, what should I do!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): You ask what you should do. He is MARRIED. You say you don't want to start a relationship with him, so why are you so concerned that he notices you?Look, it DOESN'T MATTER in the slightest whether he "likes" you or not. He is married. You know? He has exchanged vows to be faithful to another woman.You are playing with fire wanting to enjoy the "thrill" of being attractive to him.Look for another job, or else focus your attention elsewhere and stop indulging in this obsession. There's surely plenty of single men outside your workplace to get involved with!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 It doesn't matter one iota whether he may like you or not, he's married. And since you say you have no intention of going for him or having a relationship then why would you care anyway? Keep your feelings in check or look for another job. Lots and lots of single guys out there, good luck finding your special someone.
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