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writes:This is going to be a little on the embarrassing side for me but i really need someone thats been experienced to let me know the real deal.Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we do have sex every now and then. but just the other night we were laying in his bed watching tv, and recieving a body massage from him. The next day came around and we ended up having sex in the same bed, now during the intercourse i seen either a fake toe nail or a finger nail, and suprisingly i didnt jump up n put him on blast with it, only becuz i wasnt for sure that it was from him and another female or his uncle and another female.When i say his uncle i mean to say that his uncle shares a room with him but they both have seperate beds. my boyfriend continuously says all the time that he doesnt want anybody in his bed. but the day that i seen this nail in his bed it was early morning like 11:00am.. and the night b4 that i had told him tht we needed time apart but we didnt go thru with it, all though when i told him that he was highly upset, he dropped me off at home and sped off with no goodbye or anything... and come to find out later tht night he calls me... and i find out tht he was drinking with his uncle and some friends.. .now.. at this time was there a female in his bed while they were drinking, or was he in bed drinking with this female?its only been three days since this incident and i still have no idea what to think. he tells me that he never had anybody in his bed.. he says he has no idea where the nail came from...but i think otherwise. what should i do or say to him?.. whats the real deal on this situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Let me consult zee crystal ball... oooo... ahhh...
Nah.. I have no idea whether he cheated or not. Best not to keep bringing it up with him in case he's innocent without really pissing him off, however you can't forget or ignore it in case he's guilty. You may have to give him the benefit of the doubt on this one and trust him, but without being totally invasive, presumptuous or obsessive I'd watch him like a hawk from now on. Watch out for blatant lies, unusual or distant behavior and vague explanations of where he's going/been.
Best of luck :)
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