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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been going out with my bf for about a year now and throughout the relationship he has always had contact with his ex, i know i shouldnt of but i read his emails and found some sexual input from both persons, even worse he got with her a few months back and i just found out!i dont know what to do he says he loves me and if he wanted to be with her he would be but now the paranoia is driving us both insane! i want to work on the relationship but he wont stop speaking to her because she was a big part of his life! help please :(
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 You will have to accept him with that baggage. Don't let it stand in your relationship. You have got to learn to trust him otherwise, your inside will be gnawed and twisted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): Take charge and make him yours. Good relationships are about what you both bring to the table. What you have here is a man that has a deal with you and is thinking about past agreements. You need to make him a better offer. If you really love him give him something that will keep his focus on you.
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