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writes:One of my best friends introduced me to a guy. He claims he has been trying to talk to me for a long time. And I know he has but I never gave him the time of day. Now we've been talking for about a year... He has a girlfriend. He claims he likes me so much and wants to be with me, but I don't understand why? We spend time together and it's never an uncomfortable situation. He has never tried me sexually b/c I don't have sex. He respects that. The problem comes from his girlfriend. She knows about me and obviously doesn't approve of us talking. She has called me, emailed me, etc. About him. I simply tell her thats an issue between her and him. I'm beginning to get frustrated with the situation between me and him. His family says I should just wait til he's ready b/c he really likes me and they like me, "I'm such a nice girl" all that great stuff. And I like him A LOT. And when I say i like someone it's a BIG deal b/c a relationship has never been my main focus in life. I really just don't know what to do about him.SORRY IT'S SO LONG. BUT I NEED ADVISE.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 It sounds like she is right...you are a threat.
Do you want to be with him? Yes or No. If you do, make your move. If not, end the friendship, as he obviously has a thing for you.
-Frank B Kermit
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