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*wampfire
writes:My boyfriend has been away on a business trip for 3 months now.He has not been contributing to us finacialy,we have an eleven month old son.I have asked him for help,all he does is tell me stories,am realy upset with him.I dont even know if i still want him back.Afew weeks ago,one of his friends started visitng us and helped me with cash when i needed it.The thing is this,i have feelings for this guy and when he offered his help i was very happy.This friend and i went for a drink one night,one thing led to another,the next thing i knew i was in bed with this guy,i dont know what to do.Do i tell my boyfriend or just keep this to my self.It's his fault he has been away for so long.I forgot to mention one thing,this friend of ours,has a wife and a two year old. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): no don't tell him unless yo want to create alot of trouble for yourself. Telling him will not help any unless you want to breakup with him and go with this other guy. just let it go at that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011):
Tell him if you can accept the possibility than he will leave you. If you don't tell him he may find out and leave you anyway. Good work!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (24 June 2011):
 Its his fault because he has been away for 3 months?
Yeah... that kite won't fly with anybody.
Now whether or not you tell him is up to you, obviously the right thing to do is tell him. But one thing you really should do is take responsibility for your actions. Accept that you did the wrong thing and don't try to blame your actions on someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): Under any circumstances you should never sleep with someone who is married. Did you think about his wife and child before you got into bed with him? Probably not. The only thing you focused on was that you are upset with your boyfriend and you developed feelings for this guy friend, especially since he helped you out. I know things are bad for you but it is unfair to your boyfriend and the other dude's wife and child. If things aren't working out with your boyfriend then you should end the relationship. Don't cheat on him with someone else who is already taken. That's bad taste.
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