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writes:i seem to be infatuated with a guy who says he has bi-sexual tendencies but basically is straight. he has major past and present issues. i know this is going nowhere, how do i move on?
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reader, kelpel +, writes (13 March 2007):
first, figure out WHY you feel you are infatuated with him - try listing ten reasons. is he really 'all that' - esp as you know he has issues and has had a severe past. do something to take your focus away from this guy. go out somewhere new, do something exciting - even something like going to a new club/bar somewhere different, you'll meet new people and see new face, this might help you realise that looking past this guy you've been focusing all your attention on, theres a whole, big world out there full of possibilities. why settle for whats within reach - broaden your horizens - and have some fun in the process! XX
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