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writes:This is probably a very silly question that no one can really answer, but... I got back together with my BF after being separated for six months - no communication. I broke up with him because I felt he was taking me and our relationship for granted - to make a long story short.He emailed me about a month ago, and we me met for the first time a couple of days ago. He just held me for about 15 minutes and didn't say anything. He's not comfortable talking about his feelings and never was so I'm not even trying at this point to ask him anything about how he is feeling, but would that hug tell me he missed me and he still cares about me? We are going to get together again in a couple of weeks.I'm not letting myself build up any expectations because I'm not really sure why he recontacted me and he has not told me.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (14 June 2008):
 I'll side with caution here and ask that you not read too much into this. There are things that we don't know that only you can answer, but before letting your mind wonder into the realm of positive alternatives, I would remind you that you broke up with him for whatever reasons that made complete since at the time. Please keep that in mind when I say that he may simply be missing you and not after reconciliation. That said, you shouldn't be thinking that way either.
Hold strong, figure out what his intentions are and then act accordingly. I would also say that if you can't convince yourself that the reasons you broke it off with him haven't been reconciled or resolved in some way, don't go back into the relationship.
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