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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, thanks in advance for reading and answering my ?. The details are I broke up with my ex 3 yrs ago in May. He contacted me online and asked me to meet him next week to catch up. This is the first time we have had contact since end of 2006. At that time I asked him not to contact me as I didnt want to be friends, While we were together fro only 5 months, we were in love and it was hard for me to be friends. He respected my wishes. Then he randomly imd me last week saying he was going thru his email address and found mine. He does have a gf that he lives with and has been dating since a few months after we brokeup. He did mention things are rocky with their relationship. Prior to this I haven't heard from him since end of 2006. Your thoughts please
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reader, doctordwc +, writes (6 February 2009):
Don't do it. It will only cause you much more angst, move on with life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): By all means listenr heart. My take on this. Nothing happens by chance. he has had his cake and eaten it to for some time now and realizes that there is no other like you. he let you go you keep going as well
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): Dont do anything that youll regret as you made the correct choice in the first place by leaving him with non contact. Go see him but leave your guards up!
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (4 February 2009):
 It's entirely up to you but I don't see any harm in meeting for a cup of coffee and discussing old times.
You've got nothing to lose, and who knows, you might enjoy it.
He's not asking for sex; just an opportunity to catch up.
I'd just advise you to meet in a neutral environment until you know what he's really after.
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (4 February 2009):
 Totally agree with the old man. The ex factor seems to be an issue in most relationships and marriage. Don't be one of them.
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (4 February 2009):
 Don't do anything until he's free from her.
Remember the ole' "he's screwing around with his ex"?
If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!
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