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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel really bad right now because this guy asked me out before and i said no because i was with my family and lately i have been thinking about him and yesterday i saw him out. just wondering what should i do? i feel like a bitch for being mean and saying no cause i am sure he is a nice guy. i honestly am nice but i am afraid because i would get serious slaggin from my brothers and sisters and i come from a big family. Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 I'm confused. Are you upset because you wish you had said yes, or because you didn't want to have to say no?
If you wish you had said yes, that's an easy fix. Just go ask him out. Explain that when he asked, it was a bad time because of your family. He'll be quick to forgive you.
If you just feel bad for disappointing him, you're thinking about it all wrong. Guys are used to getting turned down. What sucks is when a girl takes forever to drop hints that she means know, instead of just saying it firmly the first time. You did him a favor.
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