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36-40,
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writes:hey guys, just wanted some advice on a problem i've been having. Well a few years back i worked with these two guys, they were both really cute, and more importantly, they both had great personalities. they both wanted to be with me, but i really couldn't choose between them. it sort of ended badly with one of them because i spent far more time with the other one, even though he told me he would be able to give me everything i wanted. i ended up ignoring him and didn't even say bye to him when i left that workplace, which i really regret. with the other guy, i got on really well with and we were really close mates, maybe even more than mates in some ways, until he moved abroad. So even though this all happened a while ago i still can't get over how i treated one of the guys and it still bugs me that i trated him badly i think. is there any way i can solve this because i just think about it more and more, even though i haven't seen him since and we both live in the same city. I'd really appreciate your advice. thnx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 What is past is past. There is nothing much you can change about the past. Promise yourself , the next time if you ever meet again , you will treat him better.If you ever do meet him again , just let it go and do not bring it up.Just be nice to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
You could find out were he is and send a letter of apology saying that you now realise how hurtfull you must have come across and you feel very badly and could he find it in his heart to forgive you. With luck hunny everything will be good and go fine and you can then meet and talk hope this has helped TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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