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writes:I have what I think is a great relationship with my boyfriend - He always says he is really happy and we talk about having a family next year. We have a great sex life too - only problem is that I really struggle with the way he talks to his friends about women. He talks about girls at work and ones he sees on the tube 'wouldn't it be great if she flashed her sn*tch' and 'at my age its just a fantasy if I get a smile'. He does quite openly in front of me look at girls. He is a really handsome man (in my opinion), he just started working in the City and although I do trust him, How do i know that it won't become a reality if he does get that smile?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHopefully more the latter - they are quite a close bunch of boys who probably got up to all sorts when they were younger.Crazy thing is I do know he loves me lots and lots and always says its just his silly boy thing, he says he cannot help being a boy - it just bothers me. He says he could never want anyone else but me... I just get so jealous of it! I guess I could think at least he is open about it, he says he has no secrets from me. Maybe all men do it and keep it secret?We do have a very exciting sex life, we do it alot and often have dressing up and are quite naughty.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 It almost sounds as if he's taking you for granted. Has he always been like this, or is it something that's only started since you got into a comfortable routine?
It does sound as if he wouldn't mind a bit of excitement, but on the other hand, a lot of men are all talk. Perhaps he hasn't grown out of adolescent behaviour with his friends.
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