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writes:yesterday i poseted "did i scare her away" and it seemed like no she came over to my place again last night with the origanl crowd that was there from previous night however, last night wen she got there she wouldnt even look me in the eyes and then began texting and calling other people, looking for new plans. finally she got a call from our other friend, and she up and left to go to another party. before she left tho she had me walk her to her car because my apt parking lot is "scary at night" and she gave me a kiss on the cheek, adding in that she would c me soon, is this a sign that i should not persue anything further or that because we fooled around she felt awkword being around me? im not sure and i really like this girl im hoping that some one knos wats going on in a girls head!!!! i guess what im not understanding is why she would blatintly call and ask is there any thing else going on tonight...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): It seems that she was a little shy. As far as calling somewhere else she probably felt a little uncomfortable around you.
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reader, Klara  + ♥, writes (2 July 2009):
why don't you just ask her out to the cinemas as this other person said.
i think she is shy..i think she is awkward and it's easier for her to talk to others than it is to you, as she probably has no idea what you are thinking or that you like her.
Take her to the movies, tell her you had a good time- your genuine feelings, that will encourage her to be more open. She sounds like me when i was that age hehehe... she is just as unsure as you are about what you are thinking...
best, and maybe hug her next time ..say that its a shame she is'n't staying(as this is what you feel!) so just say it. If she doens't agree then you have your answer... it's important you two get over awkwardness ..somehow..tell her you are shy too..just so she feels not so confused..? yeah?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 well i mean she didn't look at you all night perhaps she does feel quite shy around you i mean she asked you to walk her to her car maybe she just wants to be alone with you rather than in a group of people.
she kissed your cheek she clearly likes you just maybe oganise something where it'll be just you and her i think she wants to get to know you on your own not within a crowd.
maybe that's why she wanted to leave because she felt shy and that you had alot of people to get around to talking with.
try asking her to go cinemas or something with you something a bit more one on one and see how it goes from there.
Hope this helps hun x ilovebowsandcherries x
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