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I really confused with what I really want in life?

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Question - (15 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2010)
A female Australia age 41-50, *aybee writes:

Now I am 28yrs been married for 3years with no kids but that because we believe we still young and not ready yet. Been working for couple years with completely different industry from Tourism industry to education industry. my life have been up and down like Roller Coaster for past couple years and we just recently settle down our life not long ago. everything getting better for us party life, social life, work and financial but still not enough for me.

I get bored very easy about everything around me, I wonder what make me feel this way. Is that what we call Mid life crisis I am not too sure whether I at that stage yet.

I Knew I am lucky compare to many peoples our there but what I try to seek is my own happiness cause I knew it will affect on my relationship for some how and my mental in general.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010):

Hey,

When I read you, I thought, Do I have mutiple personality syndrome? You have just voiced what I have been feeling and our age group is the same.

I have been married for that much time and I have been highly frustrated with many things in my marriage and outside. I have been thinking of getting a doctrate but nothing works in favour of me. My marriage has settled down to a kind of drudgery and being a Gemini I can't sustain my interests in something for long. I am want of friends being so enjoyable in company and I can't take up a job right now due to some discreet reasons. And I realised I am a big zero save for my husband's and my parent's money. (You're better off) It could be my fault getting fastidious and all that. But I am just not able to do what I like. And I hate it.

My life has not been going the way I want it to and I have fallen for infatuation outside my marriage. It is one sided by luck. :)

Each day I pat myself and say "This too will pass."

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