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writes: I have been seeing this really great guy for about 2 months now. We get on really well and he is great with my kids. The thing is I found out today that last year he had a fling with his ex-girlfriend's sister. Usually this wouldn't bother me, but he is still quite close to her and sees her once a week. She also goes into the shop where he works. I didn't think anything of it before because I didn't know they had a history. Am I wrong for being suspicious? I really do like this guy and I can see myself with him in the future. Its not that I don't trust him I'm just uncomfortable with it. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2005): well sister girl let him have his fling but if you find out they is actually having sex let his ass go i mean he's new you can find another one just like you found him
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reader, star3482 +, writes (9 May 2005):
if she's going out of her way to see him like going in his shop etc it sounds like she's after a bit. theres nothing you can do though, what will be will be.
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reader, TJ +, writes (9 May 2005):
The best thing you can do in this situation is to talk honestly about it with your boyfriend ask him if it's true and ask him what his feelings are now towards her. You may find that this fling was something silly and is completely finished with now and he regrets it. If you don't talk about it, you will start to have doubts about him and in the end you won't trust him. Good luck
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