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writes:Today I came home from the dentist to find my fiance had packed all his things. When I got out of the car he broke up with me right out of the blue. We had been having problems getting along ever since we moved in together. After he told me it was over, of course I cryed and begged him to stay. After he did stay I don't feel right. I feel empty inside and idk what to do. Any advice? I feel like I'm dead inside and I can't stop crying randomly because I never expected this of him.
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reader, Snowe +, writes (23 February 2011):
You are too young to be engaged. Get the tears out, and let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAre you sure? Cause I forgot to mention that afterwards he claims he did it to see if I even cared because he claimed there was two reasons he did it...1. Because I never show him affection and 2. Because we argue too much and I say harsh things when we argue. I was thinking the same thing you said and he claims he wants to stay and that he wasn't going to leave this was just to show me how serious he was that things need to change.what should I do to find out for sure if he wants to be with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): tell him to go if he wants too dont stop him you cant force anyone to be with you if they cant or dont want too, they'll be unhappy and if you truly love them do you want that for them? its better to end things before it gets even more complicated, if its ment to be it'll happen if not then you'll find someone els who cant wait to spend every min of their life with you, and leaving will never cross their mind.
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