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How can I stop being restless?

Q.   This isn't a love or relationship question, but I hope you will help me nevertheless. My problem is that I'm very restless in class. I'm always moving; whether it's crossing my legs, playing with my hair, resting my head on my hand, just all and ...

A.   23 February 2011: Get a notebook and take notes furiously. Instead of acting out physically, try doodling or writing less boring things on the side of your notes if you can't stand it. Also, stare out the window and daydream. Pay more attention to your thoughts than ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is not responding to my texts

Q.   i been texting my boyfriend and he is not texting me back and i am not sure what to do ? any advice...this hashappened before...i love my boyfriend lotz.....

A.   23 February 2011: The phone used to be used to make calls where you can actually hear someone's voice on the other end. Also, when I was young and you wanted to talk to someone, you would walk over to their house and knock on the door and ask if they were home. And ... (read in full...)

Is there a problem here or am I over-reacting in the situation??

Q.   I feel confused and very very jealous and the sad part is I never consider me the jealous type. This feeling of insecurity happened a few months ago when a couple of picutres were tagged on my facebook by a friend that they thought were a little ...

A.   23 February 2011: Why is your sister living with you? Tell her she needs to get her own place or move in with other family. Then, you will be free to start working on your marriage and the jealousy factor will not be an issue...unless there is something going on with ... (read in full...)

Money over love?

Q.   Do all men value money over love? ...

A.   23 February 2011: Men value the money more when they are not in love with you. When they are in love with you, you are more valuable.... (read in full...)

I want a threesome! How do I convince her to do so?

Q.   How can I entice my girl into having a threesome with me and another girl?...

A.   23 February 2011: If you cared about her, (which you don't) you wouldn't be considering this. So break up with her, go get drunk and find some college floozys to do that with.... (read in full...)

We both admitted the spark is gone what do we do now?

Q.   Iv been with my boyfriend for a about a year now, but the last few monts have been very tough as weve had a few break ups, then got back together! He has a 3 year old child whom he see twice a week as his ex is a bit of a handful. Just before new ...

A.   23 February 2011: You are the third wheel in the boyfriend and his baby mama's relationship. Go get something better for yourself.... (read in full...)

I never expected my fiance to break up with me!

Q.   Today I came home from the dentist to find my fiance had packed all his things. When I got out of the car he broke up with me right out of the blue. We had been having problems getting along ever since we moved in together. After he told me it was ...

A.   23 February 2011: You are too young to be engaged. Get the tears out, and let him go.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want to meet my parents because of our age gap?

Q.   Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months officially but it's difficult for me to see him all the time as I'm 6 years younger than him and he hasn't met my parents yet. Because of the age difference I lie to them as to where I'm ...

A.   23 February 2011: He can't meet your parents because what you are doing is illegal and he can go to jail.... (read in full...)

Should I get divorced or revamp my married life

Q.   I m a 28 year old female, tall, fair and good looking. Right from my school days I have been into various relationships, college, and at work been involved with various men emotionally and physically with almost al of them. May of them were affairs ...

A.   23 February 2011: You got married at 23. What did you think life would be like? Maybe instead of having numerous affairs, you should take a moment and think. What is it that you want for your life? You obviously don't want to love this man or have a baby or you ... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend's ex husband wants to date me, and I like him too. How should we go about this?

Q.   Ok so right to it. My ex gf's ex husband is interested in dating me and I want to date him. Him and her have 3 children and he's a good father. He sees his children almost everyday and her also because the children live with her. How should we go ...

A.   23 February 2011: This is a bad idea all around. Those poor kids. You are young enough to stray away from "familiar relationships" that are full of drama and past baggage. You need to find someone new and create your own life.... (read in full...)

How do you meet people when you're new in a city?

Q.   A few months ago, my ex and I broke up. I'm in the process of moving to a new city, and I'm ready to get back into dating. My question is, how do you meet people when you're new in a city? I used to be shy, but I think I've become really confident ...

A.   23 February 2011: You need a hobby such as sports, going to the gym, or taking a community class. It also helps to find a regular hangout, such as somewhere you go for coffee a few times a week to sit back and read and scope the grounds. I wouldn't recommend online ... (read in full...)

My bf said one day I will realize I am too good for him. What does he mean by that?

Q.   Hey everyone, I've got a few relationship questions, and I'd be grateful if you answer at least one of them! We've been together for 9 months. He is my first real boyfriend. We're pretty comfortable around each other and can talk about almost eve...

A.   23 February 2011: When a boy says that, that means he has done something wrong. Plain and simple, he cheated.... (read in full...)

In love with a married man...what do I do?

Q.   dear cupid, I been searching a sites that can answer my problem, i know that is common problem but i dont know yet the answers. i been falling inlove with a man that is married. we been dating and no commitment for this situation. Why he dont tell...

A.   23 February 2011: Very common problem. The man you are "in love" with is an emotional abuser. He is preying on your feelings and naivete. He is going to hurt you tremendously, and anyone you tell is going to blame you for being the mistress. I know you are really ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't care about me either way. why?

Q.   I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex two years ago and she took it hard. It was a bad move because once I started going out with my ex again I realized that it was my girlfriend that I loved and not her. So i went bck to my girlfriend but she ...

A.   23 February 2011: She will not be like she was before. You cheated. Take it as a lesson learned.... (read in full...)

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