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26-29,
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writes:okay, so my best friend, sam, ALWAYS has a bf, and is always talking about her prioblems with him, and because i have never expirienced anything like it, i never know what to say, so a few weeks ago her latest boyfriend(john) had asked her to go a bit further with him, and she did , because she loved him, and she thought that john loved her(so did i, and everyone else!) but today, he has said to her 'i'm too busy for a girlfriend right now' and she was distraught, now all im saying to her is oh dont worry:) it will be okay and then sending a load of faces like :S lol, im usuless! and shes saying- WTF?! DONT WORRY! I AM WORRYING!, but i want to try and make her feel better, but i cant, wat should i say?!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 September 2010):
 Ouch your friend got used for sex then tossed aside like yesterday's news! Poor thing. Well when I was your age we weren't that sexually advanced..so let's fast forward to when I was a little older and this happened to my friends...We would all comfort my friend bad mouthing, that no good piece of crap, waste of space, he probably had a small dick anyways, it looked like a cocktail weenie, laughing our heads off and making her crack a smile. Have slumber parties, take old pictures of him and her draw mustaches and horns on his face, then take a coffee can, some matches, go out in the back yard, proceed to burn those pictures letting slowly burn in the can. Take all of his crap he left at his house, or anything he gave her throw it in a box, and drop the box off on his front porch. Lastly, stayed up watching sappy love movies, talking about how hot Josh Hartnett was while taking 2 spoons and eating a gallon of ice cream. All of this made my friend feel tons better, having a bit of closure dumping his stuff at his house, and especially burning the pictures to get him out of her life. Sometimes, it's not what you say to your friend it's what you do for her.
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