A
female
age
41-50,
*ammy
writes:hi i wonder if anyone can give me some advice on how to deal with this..Were getting married in september and my mum,brother and two sisters aren't talkin to my older brother. I've asked him loads of times for his address as he's recently moved and he hasn't given it to me. I hav a feeling he wont be coming because of the rest of the family but i love him dearly and i'd be heart broken if he wasnt there. My dream wedding was to have my parents and all my siblings present on the day how do i get them speaking again or get him to be there for me on the day???Please help:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): hey
i understand where youre coming from, i would feel the same.
before the wedding why dont you have lunch/dinner with your parents and siblings-without ur eldest brother there-you could speak to them and tell them how you feel.
or, you could write your brother a letter, telling him how much you would like him to be there for you and not for anybody else, you could put this letter in his invite.
tell your family to be civil on your wedding day because it will ruin it for you.
familys are so complicated-i cant think of anything else just yet-if i do ill send u another answer
hope it all works out for u
love and god bless
friend x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): well this is your family and this is going to be your special day. tell them not to ruin your happiness on your day. im sure they will understand and they will start talking again. but let them know that this is what will make you happy. and besides it your wedding day, your allowed to boss them around!!
Best of Wishes!!!
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