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writes:What are the most important characteristics in a good woman, girlfrien and/or wife? I am really trying to become a better woman and would like a mans take. Thank you!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Mark28  +, writes (3 December 2010):
You know it all depends on what the man is looking for..if he is looking for a one night stand then he would look for a slutty woman with great physical appeal but if he is looking for a serious relation he would go for a girl who is simple, someone who will be with him no matter what good times or bad times, someone to accept him the way he is without him changin, someone who would make a great mom one day and knows how to respect herself and her family.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (30 November 2010):
PatientlyWaiting1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys! These were fantastic responses! I really appreciat the thought behind each of them! I am not even exaggerating!! Best wishes
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 November 2010):
My list is short - honesty, loyalty and confidence.
It maybe takes a long time to get those right, especially the confidence. But when a woman does get them right, she becomes infinitely more interesting that someone who's a liar, or someone who lacks confidence.
So, you just need to work on yourself. If you're an honest, loyal person then that's a great start. Whether you're confident or not is another thing, but confidence is something that you can build upon. So, make sure you feel good about yourself, make sure when you look in a mirror you can't help but smile because you know you're great. Make sure you have your own hobbies and interests. Be open minded about things. Surround yourself with good, positive friends.
Then, when you're happy about yourself, a guy will come into your life.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 First answer, who are you right now? Start with being who you are, the chances are you are already more than good enough if you are even willing to engage in self-improvement. Such is the way of humans in general, constant development.
A woman should be confident in herself. That is really attractive, she should be able to take care of herself. Some women might be overly-independant and that, in my opinion is not good for a healthy relationship.
She should be intelligent to some point. I do not mind the occasional blather about something utterly pointless but I do enjoy having deeper conversations, sharing views, having light-hearted debates on anything really.
What are the characteristics of a good lover in general? I expect the woman I love to be reliable and someone I can confide in without worrying about having such intimate details of my life turned against me in the future.
I want someone who is patient. Patience is important because in people and in life in general, things may not go according to plan and I find that patience is required, especially in MY life. A woman who is patient can often find some amount of beauty in even the most difficult of times.
Like I said though, you should not change who YOU are. While it is good to consider and perhaps shift your own personality to something ideal, you should only do so if you are comfortable with it. Let it be a welcome change and not something forced.
I hope that helps.
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