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writes: i met my ex of a year and a half last tues,he is my 1st 4 everything and i do really love him,we met up and had a really good nite n we ended up having sex but now hes ignorin me for no good reason?i dont get it.one min he wants me and the next he dont??? help!!!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (18 September 2006):
 im sorry to say i think in this case you have just been used you may love him and maybe he did love you once but now it doesnt seem he loves you any more and its all sex for him, try keeping away from him enjoy your self and keep busy to take your mind off it. e.g go out socialising with your freinds.
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (18 September 2006):
 It sounds like he wasn't serious about restarting a relationship with you, dear. This is a common problem for a lot of women. They go to bed with a guy and all the heartfelt feelings come into play. I think you made the error in judgement...you thought that because you both had sex, that this was the start of a relationship with him again. Quite often people (women, more often) assume this level of intimacy means monogamy. Many of us get hurt quite often, with these unclear boundaries. I could be wrong but this could be what has happened. The only way to find out..is talk directly to him. Good luck, hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): Maybe he was pleased to see you and hang out a friends but sex just happened. Maybe he thought it was a mistake and doesn't want to give you the wrong impression again
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