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I met a sweet and persistant guy at a party, I don't want to cheat. What do I do?

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Question - (23 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2012)
A male United States age 36-40, *weetlove96 writes:

dear cupid

i have been datting my boyfriend for a month and counting and 2 weekends ago i went to a party and i met this guy who is part of the group but we never met at the party we danced and he was interested in me and i told him if i didnt have a boyfriend you would be mine i have no intention of cheating on my boyfriend but at the end of the day i do like this guy he said he would wait for me until me and my boyfriend breakup of natural causes this guy is really sweet i have intention of cheating on my boyfriend though but everyday that i talk to him its just amazing what do i do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012):

Evaluate the situation.

If this new guy is really worth it, and you want to have a relationship with him, then go for it. Be really honest with both your old boyfriend and the new guy.

BUT, this might just be you "want what you can't have." If you're just infatuated with the new guy, and you don't have a real connection, drop it. Don't destroy a budding relationship for a new temptation because he looks pretty.

Basically, figure out which it is, because unless you do, you might end up without either of the,.

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