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writes:I am a stright boy, i think, i have a great girlfriend, and love being with her, but recently,i have been having tought of men, i watch gayporn and i get horny and often "wank"as well to it, i have kissed a fella, and think about doing it again, but i dont feel attraction to men, just women, am i gay or bi or what??? please help me someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): That is nothing to worry about, i know someone else who used to be turned on by looking at blokes and he was one himself, yet he was a man-woman bloke, stop worrying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): I agree with Hope, it could just be a phase. I think a lot of people are turned on by thinking sexual thoughts of the same sex, but it doesn't necessarily mean that they aren't straight. Whatever feels best for you is what you are. You can't be forced into being branded 'gay' if you don't believe you are gay! You be what you feel comfortable with. And if you are turned on by thinking sexual thoughts of guys, then good for you. No need to brand yourself honey. Good luck :]
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reader, Jes  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Being attracted to both sexes, either sexually or emotional commitment, is a sign of some personality formation. They once said that naturally, a person is a bisexual during the prenatal period, but his sexuality is based by how he is raised and nurtured.
As I look into your case, I don't really can tell because you're just felt the feeling yourself and not committed personally to any sexual acts to men just kissing contact only. If you will based only on personal thoughts and fantasies (gayporn), I can conclude that you just love the act but not the whole thing!
bottomline is, You may be a bisexual! But not sure! Know it yourself, It's only you can tell. I dont want to be conclusive at all because it might stay to your mind. Think about it yourself. You';; find the answers for sure! Analyze and Accept!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): It could simply be a phase that you're going through at the moment. But if you say that you are attrcted to women and not men then but still get turned on by gay porn then some part of you could be bi. In either case it's nothing to worry about! Just be yourself and if you're happy with your girlfriend then that's great, but if you break up with her and like kissing guys then do that. It's what makes you most happy and it doesn't matter what others say :)
Good luck - keep me posted!
xx Hope xx
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