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writes: Going crazy!!! My ex broke it off with me almost 2 months ago, and only a week or two after we broke up she started seeing someone new. We went out for a little over a year. My buddy just recently broke up with his girlfriend and together we agreed to not contact our ex girlfriends. However, even though I think that may be the best route to go, I'm still madly in love with her and want to talk to her or write her a letter to tell her how I feel! What should I do?!
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reader, shredordie +, writes (13 April 2006):
shredordie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys, yeah, It was definitely me who caused the problem in the relationship. I had hurt her once, and a few months later we hit a rough spot. We hit the rough area because we basically spent too much time together. So we agreed to work on things and things were looking good, but I still needed to grow a bit and I got drunk, said some stupid things, and probably hurt her more. At that point she didn't want to give me another chance and any attempts by me to reconcile just pushed her further away.
We're friendly now, and she seems to be contacting me more now that I'm not really making an effort to contact her. I'll see her at a couple get togethers this weekend, we'll see how things go. I don't know if it's too soon to pour out my feelings to her.
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reader, lostgirl04  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Why did you guys break up? Maybe she moved on quickly because she was trying to forget you. Sometimes we girls can only move on if we have some1 else around to show us that we ARE special. Sometimes we have to date someone to stop hurting from our last relationship. If you hurt her in any way or if she felt unloved that's probably why she started dating some1 quick. If she broke it off becuz she needed space or she gave you any lame excuse then you shouldn't try to get back with her. But if you think you were the 'problem' in the relationship then try to talk to her again. Hope this helped. Good luck
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (12 April 2006):
 okay well,
i guess you have big decsion to make you either can cut yourself out of her life for good or include yourself in it. Sorry but i believe your alot more in love with her then she was/is with you, thats why i gathered just from the fact that she moved on so fast. (you never told me she moved on so fast)
Look you have a choice either cut her out of your life, long for her for a long time but then found someone new or she might came back to you.
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Stay in her life, long for her still but you get to see her happy, maybe get back together with her in the furture or move on.
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